The most important thing - and I've said it a hundred times and I'll say it a hundred times - if you marry a man, marry the right one.
Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook and Author of Lean In
I'm Dr. Scott Carroll and I whole heartedly agree with Ms. Sandberg, but how can you tell who is the right one?
Do you know in your heart that you deserve to be married to a wonderful man, but all you keep meeting are immature boys, commitment-phobes, cheaters and other assorted losers?
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Dating is a jungle filled with both danger and opportunity and it isn’t easy telling which is which. Knowing the specific dangers is key, because blanket judgments like “all men are cheaters” may protect you, but it will also block you from the opportunity of a wonderful relationship.
After the essential ability to , being able to identify and defend your self from the bad actors out there is the next critical skill single women need. So whether you are a rookie or a veteran, this guide to the three most dangerous types of men in the dating jungle will help you to safely navigate these treacherous waters to the harbor of true love. More...
We feel guilty for saying no. We get ostracized and challenged for saying no, so we forget it's our choice.
One of the most common challenges my dating clients face is with saying no, from declining requests for first or second dates, to invitations from friends or family to ending relationships. For some of my clients, the challenge with saying no is so significant that they avoid saying yes – even to coffee dates – because they may have to say no later.
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Have you ever wished you could attract women like bad boys do, but without actually having to become a bad boy? I had always struggled to attract women, but the thought of being a jerk, manipulating or lying to people didn’t sit well with me.
So when I became single a few years ago I was determined to figure out how to get bad boy results without sacrificing my integrity. Here is what I found, distilled down to three simple keys to change you from a boring nice guy to a woman magnet while leaving your morals and ethics intact.
1. Be Cool – I don’t mean cool like the Fonz or James Dean. Be cool toward other people by detaching from what they think and feel about you. That means freeing yourself from the need to please others and refusing to be responsible for their happiness.
You can and should still care about the overall wellbeing of others – that's part of maintaining your integrity – but practice detaching from their moment-to-moment feelings about you. Be clear on the fact you cannot control how someone responds to you, only how you treat them.
So whenever you become concerned about how someone feels about you – and they are not your mother or your boss – let it go. Remind yourself that if you treated them fairly it is not your responsibility how they feel.